Who we are

I’m Pilar, Alasdair’s mommy. I’m one of those childless cat ladies that many insecure white men are afraid of.

My kitties are my babies. Losing Alasdair was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through.

I work in tech and also like to do things outdoors, like ride my bike, run, and go on walks.

I created this website in the days after Alasdair died because it helped me process my loss and gave me something productive to do.

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